Wednesday, 1 April 2020

Mistakes that People Commit which lead to Miserable Life




  • The outcome (result) of your life is traceable to the inputs you made earlier in life. If you're hard on yourself today, so as to cultivate the right deeds and habits (required for success), you'll enjoy a life of ease later in life. But if you use your life to test run every pleasurable things that come your way (early in life), you'll end up experiencing hardness of life. To avoid such hard life experience, avoid the following costly mistakes



    1. Not Submitting (Subscribing) to Learning from the Experience of Others (elderly ones, esp those whose success record you admire and wish to replicate). It's often said that experience is the best teacher. But it must not be your own experience. A driver with no spare tyre is careful while driving, so as not to puncture the only one it has, in uncalculated driving. So, you ought to replicate that safety habit. The best way to do so, is by enquiring from other drivers that have gone ahead of you or those who have gone through the road you're presently driving on, for guidance. Failure to do this early enough in life, will leave you with limited options of a smooth sail and landing in life.


    1. Not taking responsibility for your life's outcome and finances early enough. This costly mistakes has wrecked the lives of many. Many, even in their 20s still depend solely on their parent for survival and also see their parent responsible for the outcome of their life. They don't wake up early to take responsibility for their finances and life's outcome. They don't start early to source for means of income (either to support themselves or their family). They see and make their parent, guardians and other relatives responsible for their finances and life's outcome. Wake Up and Give Desired (Appropriate) Shape to Your Life.


    1. Not having a defined or stable stand or direction in life. It's often said that those who do not have a stand or standard to live by, usually fall for anything that comes their way. Most people in their 20s follow every trend (fashion, music, etc) they see in the social media and around them, without taking time to analyze the ripple effect of their action. This unchecked habit has crippled many youth in their prime. They're tossed to and fro by every wind of fashion and environmental change. They end up falling as preys to their predators and regretting at last. You can't continue living like a chameleon and expect to have an outstanding life. If you really want to enjoy life in due time, prove all things that come your way and hold unto the profitable (the kind that’s capable of producing your desired success).

    1. Little or no commitment to personal growth. The youthful stage of ones life ought to be a time primarily dedicated to personal growth and development.  A tree that intend to last long and bear more fruit in its old age, takes time to grow its root downward and the branches upward. Life has always answered to the principle of sowing and reaping. It's an abnormally to reap what you never sowed into your life. If you don't want to reap hardness of life, later on in life, take time to deliberately commit yourself to personal growth and development. The issue with most people in their 20s, is that they want to live (enjoy) life first, before committing to personal growth. They end up not lasting long in their desired lifestyle.


    1. Not Starting Out Early in Life. Most young persons in their 20s allow the “I'm too young mentality” to limit their early progress in life. They succumb to the despise on youths for positive generational change. They allow the shouting and side talks of others to limit the expression of their potentials early enough. Never allow any man to look down on you because you're young. They don't know what your Creator has heavily deposited in you. I'll like to let you know that, you're not too young to become a multimillionaire. You’re not too young to start that business of your dream. You’re not too young to become a king (and a sought after person) in your niche (industry)



    • You're not too young to start that ministry of your calling. You're not too young to start initiating and building that godly relationship and home. You're not too young to start implementating that proven idea of yours.


    Don't allow the river of mistakes that drowned men with heavy potential and promising future, to also drown you. CAREFULLY HEED TO THESE ADVICE DETAILED ABOVE.

    -Joseph Isieturugo

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