Saturday, 4 April 2020

Wana toughen up? Do this....



For a period of time in college, I worked as a construction laborer for 20–30 hours per week. I needed money for 3 main reasons. I had a girlfriend who wanted to go out once in a while, I was burning through a lot of ammo, and I wanted to start saving. My dad and a small scholarship I won paid for my tuition, board, and food, but my dad refused to give me any extra cash.

I didn't want to deliver pizzas or work in a campus store because those jobs were boring and didn't pay that much. There was a company doing construction work near campus and I decided to try to get a job the old fashioned way. I drove to the construction site, knocked on the trailer, and went inside. The guy inside looked at me with impatience and asked me who the hell I was and what I wanted. I explained my situation and asked if he had anything entry level and part-time. He said, they were looking for a general labor guy and I said I would take it. He said something like “hold your horses” and proceeded to ask me about school, my work experience, where I’m from, if I owned any tools, etc. After talking for a few minutes, he looked at me quizzically and said he would put me on the job for a week on a trial basis. I also got paid $1.50 less than the other new guys, but it was still pretty decent money.

I showed up to work the next 3 days and did 24 hours. The other guys on the crew showed me the ropes and I picked up the necessary skills quickly. At the end of day 3, the foreman told me that I could work there for the next few months. I was pretty strong and refused to quit no matter how cold and painful the job was, so the older guys on the crew started calling me “Herc”. I’ll be honest, that made me feel like a badass. Apparently, the older guys bet that I would quit after the first week. They were surprised that an upper middle class kid of Indian ethnicity would work in construction while going to school. It’s definitely not common and I’m proud that I was able to stick it out.
Over the next 3 months, I worked my ass off in the blistering Pennsylvania cold and saved close to $2,500. It was the greatest learning experience of my life. I worked with guys who were mostly from poor backgrounds. They had to work for every morsel of food they ate from the time they were teenagers. They didn't have a comfortable upper middle class upbringing like me. I learned about the working class lifestyle, work ethic, taking pride in what you do, and the value of a hard day’s work. I have never worked that hard in my life, before or since.

My grades suffered a little, but not much. I was exhausted after every shift but the quality of sleep I got was amazing. I went to sleep fully satisfied with what I had done after each working day. The job made me tough and I had much more confidence. I developed true faith in myself. If shit hit the fan, I could take care of and provide for myself. Not many college kids can say that.
The guys in the construction crew were an honor group. Everybody took care of each other and worked together to achieve a common goal. I haven't felt that kind of camaraderie in any job I ever did before or since then.

I recommend all my low skill mentees work in construction to start with. You wanna become a tough bastard? Work in construction.

-Aditya Chhabra

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