I am not Responsible

Because it becomes easy to accept things this way.

Human beings find it very difficult to accept their own mistakes.

One of the hardest things to do in our lives is to forgive ourselves. We can easily forgive others for the hurt that they have caused us. But is it the same thing when it comes to accepting our own mistakes?

No. It is not the same. It is much easier to forgive others than ourselves.

When someone does wrong with you, they would give you an apology and you will either reconcile or not. It’s up to you whether to see them again or not. But when it’s you who have done the mistake, you find it harder to escape yourself.

It will be very easy for you to blame your family for your failure in an exam, marriage, life or career. You will try to find plenty of excuses to assure yourself that it was not your mistake.

I believe it’s all in our minds. We try to run away from real things and find solace in the explanation that makes it easier to accept ourselves. But this is not right because in this way we will never learn and hence will never grow.

Yeah, that’s it.

-Nishu Jain,IITK