- In my first year of graduation, KK was coming to the fest at Kirori Mal College. I was a big fan of his songs at that time but none of my friends wanted to go there. Finally, I decided to go alone and I am glad that I took that decision. It was the first concert of my life and I can say it is one of the memorable evenings of my life. :-)
- A few years back, a movie was getting released. I liked the trailer and wanted to watch it anyhow. But again, none of my friends and cousins agreed as it was a typical romantic movie and sadly my friends are not hopeless romantics unlike me! I booked a day time show and went to watch alone! Bang, I loved it!
- Usually, I feel like going for a cup of green tea in the evening whenever I am working in my lab. At times, lab mates agree and most of the time they do not. I go alone and enjoy my ‘me’ time. One day one of my friends asked me, “Don’t you feel odd while sitting alone in the canteen?” I replied, “Not even for a moment.”
IF I CAN GIVE ONE TIP TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
Do
not depend on anyone for anything. If there is something that you want
to do and can do alone, do not force anyone to do it for you or with
you. The moment you will stop depending on people, you will notice a
positive change in your life. You will start building confidence and
will start believing in yourself. Trust me, you will change yourself for
the better. Moreover, you will have fewer complaints and grudges
against people.
Eventually, you will realize that your happiness depends on you and not on anyone else. :-)
So
next time if you feel like going out to have an ice-cream or a walk or
shopping or anything, do not wait for anyone! Go by yourself. :-)
Invest
the time in yourself instead of pleasing and convincing people around
you! This is your life and you should know how to live it. :-)
Now, smile :-)
- Nishu Jain
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