In life, the lesson will repeat itself over and over, until you get it.
If you are in a loop. Ask yourself; what’s the lesson here?
Here are 5 commons lessons people forget.
1. Everyone won’t like you.
No matter how many social hacks you master. Everybody won't like you.
People tend to forget that and chase people. You give your self-worth to someone and then chase them to get it back.
How is that sane?
Piss-people off on purpose. Learn to be okay with not being liked.
2. Negative people are just on autopilot.
People discouraging you from going after your dreams? People being mean to you?
They are just chained to their emotional patterns. Trying to cope with what they haven’t let go.
There is no ill intent. I know, it’s not fun to hear it.
But it’s true.
3. But get negative people out of your life.
I know I said that there is no ill intent but there is an ill effect.
Your brain will catch up on the negativity around you. You can’t observe every thought.
You can’t change the people around you.
So it’s best to leave, even if it means being alone.
4. Small wins need celebrations.
How many times something good happened in your life?
And how many times you brushed it off as “not good enough” “doesn’t really matter”.
People tend to forget it’s the small wins that fill the journey with colors.
The end goal won't give you as much happiness as celebrating these small wins will.
Being happy about every little step up. You deserve to feel that :)
5. Comfort zones are miserable.
Yes, you have done something uncomfortable in your life.
Something that challenged you and made you a better you.
But people disregard that it needs to happen daily.
Every time you escape your comfort zone; there is a new one waiting for you.
That’s the joy of life. That’s how you grow.
-Rafael Eliassen
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