Friday, 21 February 2020

4 years of struggle





My Salary is 44000 after deducting HRA and taxes as I have got Govt. accommodation . And am I happy with this? Answer is big Yessss. So here comes my journey.

After graduating from Tier III engineering college in mechanical engineering I had not any chance for a good placement, hence I decided to prepare for GATE and join any Psu. I came Delhi in August 2014 and joined Made Easy. But Made Easy classes were very crowded and schedule is very hectic, one who has ever joined Made Easy may understand. Classes started and my problems too. In starting things where going in easy mode but as some days passed, due to hectic schedule of classes I was not able to be in line with the classes.

 In between November to December my classes were of 10–12 hours per day, I was struggling with subjects due to lack of revision. On 10′th of January 2015 core subjects were completed by Made Easy but mine preparation wasn't due to lack of revision and practice. Then came GATE 2015 and I scored very low. I was nowhere in the race of getting any Psu or any other job. In August of 2015 I was diagnosed with dengue and I have to go to Patna (My home town) for treatment. After 20 days of treatment I returned to Delhi. In September I had to appear for NPC ( National Productivity Council) exam and I cleared Prelims of that exam but sucked in mains which was the selection stage due to illness. 

I again appeared for GATE in 2016 but again failed to grab any job. Now I was devastated and was feeling very low. Till that date my preparation was financed by one of my elder cousin brother, as my own family's financial condition was not able to support me and after my two failed attempts he was not in mood to support me further. But then one of my elder cousin sister who was married and was working in SBI started supporting me financially and mentally. 

I again started my preparation and cleared prelims of 2 Psu's and got interview call in 2017 but was selected for none of them. 

That was the lowest point of my life, I started feeling depressed. But soon I understand that I have to overcome this and started practicing yoga and meditation which helped me both physically and mentally. By then everyone was suggesting me to prepare for banking jobs or any other non-tech jobs saying that engineering job is not your cup of tea but I didn't listened them. My Father used to tell me that you come here (Bihar) and do B.Ed atleast you will be able to apply for teaching jobs, but my mother and my cousin sister who was supporting me told me to do whatever you want to do. In April 2018 I apeared for Junior Engineer exam in Delhi Development Authority and got selected. 

After so many lows in those 4 years I learnt to be happy with whatever I have. I am happy because now I have not to think that how I will fullfill my basic needs, how will I help my father financially, how my siblings study will be financed. I am happy because now I have not to face those days where I had to skip evening snacks so that I can have dinner from that money. I am happy because my father always tell me that I have increased his prestige in society. 

I am happy because my mother is happy now (She used to get sad ☹️ after seeing my struggle during preparation days) . I am happy because I have kept the faith of my sister who had faith in me and financed my study all because of that 44000. This 44000 is not just 44k but key of my happiness. 

I have brought my siblings and cousins to Delhi for there further studies. My younger sister plays cricket, and she got selected in Under 19 cricket in 2018 but due to Bihar cricket internal politics her future was not safe there so I have brought her Delhi and got her admitted in a good Cricket academy. I have learnt to be happy with what God has provided us.

-Prashant Ranjan

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