Why are we so afraid of failures and miseries?
Human body has the abilities to bear different temperatures, conditions, emotional turbulences and circumstances.
It's not that tough dealing with miseries, then why so afraid?
The answer is “people”.
Society, neighbours, colleagues, friends, enemies, family, cousins, aunts, uncles, ex/current, spouse, children, parents and.every stranger who doesn't matter.
‘We don't have a life, in the eyes of our own life.’
Our life is a moon which rotates around the expectations of other people.
All we keep thinking in loop is-
What will they think?
How will they react?
What will they talk behind my back?
Will they make fun of me?
I will fall below them, they will supercede me.
This attitude succesfuly multiplies an otherwise manageable misery.
For example you lost your job or failed in a crucial entrance.
You still have a life, you still have a family, you can still cope by making efforts, you can still rise, maybe not too high, no one can guess, but surely you can make a come back in life.
But this unneeded thought about people shatters you to the core and you can't see beyond your miseries.
What is the result?
You fall down, but instead of standing up again, you keep lying down, and turn your face towards the ground and rub it with mud so that nobody can notice that it's you, or you can't notice their reaction.
While standing up was not that difficult.
Who are you living your life for?
Society?
One day you will die and society will move on as fast as you can't imagine in your dreams.
Answering this question.
People need to immediately-
Calm down.
Stop overthinking.
Smile at their your life and existing achievements.
Stop worrying for something which is destined to happen.
Leave alone people and stay in solitude if necessary.
Accept failures, and destined miseries with open hands.
You created an ego, can't you create an indifferent and strong identity?
Let go what has to go with peace and a right intent, cry when alone, remember in memories.
Learn to live in miseries gifted to you by fate, it's a part of your story, stop bothering about the entire world.
Try with dedication and passion and not compulsion.
Focus on the real self and not the fake identity you created to deal with people.
When life is a war, be a warrior. Give a strong fight and fight till your last breathe.
And most importantly, learn to find happiness in your present circumstances, however tough they are. This is the only way to succeed in life.
-Anubhav Jain
Human body has the abilities to bear different temperatures, conditions, emotional turbulences and circumstances.
It's not that tough dealing with miseries, then why so afraid?
The answer is “people”.
Society, neighbours, colleagues, friends, enemies, family, cousins, aunts, uncles, ex/current, spouse, children, parents and.every stranger who doesn't matter.
‘We don't have a life, in the eyes of our own life.’
Our life is a moon which rotates around the expectations of other people.
All we keep thinking in loop is-
What will they think?
How will they react?
What will they talk behind my back?
Will they make fun of me?
I will fall below them, they will supercede me.
This attitude succesfuly multiplies an otherwise manageable misery.
For example you lost your job or failed in a crucial entrance.
You still have a life, you still have a family, you can still cope by making efforts, you can still rise, maybe not too high, no one can guess, but surely you can make a come back in life.
But this unneeded thought about people shatters you to the core and you can't see beyond your miseries.
What is the result?
You fall down, but instead of standing up again, you keep lying down, and turn your face towards the ground and rub it with mud so that nobody can notice that it's you, or you can't notice their reaction.
While standing up was not that difficult.
Who are you living your life for?
Society?
One day you will die and society will move on as fast as you can't imagine in your dreams.
Answering this question.
People need to immediately-
Calm down.
Stop overthinking.
Smile at their your life and existing achievements.
Stop worrying for something which is destined to happen.
Leave alone people and stay in solitude if necessary.
Accept failures, and destined miseries with open hands.
You created an ego, can't you create an indifferent and strong identity?
Let go what has to go with peace and a right intent, cry when alone, remember in memories.
Learn to live in miseries gifted to you by fate, it's a part of your story, stop bothering about the entire world.
Try with dedication and passion and not compulsion.
Focus on the real self and not the fake identity you created to deal with people.
When life is a war, be a warrior. Give a strong fight and fight till your last breathe.
And most importantly, learn to find happiness in your present circumstances, however tough they are. This is the only way to succeed in life.
-Anubhav Jain
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