Wednesday, 17 June 2020

#2 Amplify Your Strengths. You can be Anything, but you can’t be Everything




If you have strengths, amplify them. For example, I have decent English writing and communication skills, and I use these strengths to teach English classes. The classes turn out to be quite successful.
If you have certain weaknesses, build a team with complementary skills to cover your weakness. Don’t waste too much time correcting your weakness when someone else can handle the part for you. Amplify your strengths.

-Dylan Woon

{ Blogger's Note: If you wana build upon your weakness and make it your strength then do hard and smart work on it. Learn from the people who had the same weakness as you and then they overcame it.Try different strategy. Change your working way until your weakness becomes your strength
What I want to say is Judge your situation and then do accordingly  }

My Grandfather, a Millionaire, was born in a house that doesn't even had a Toilet



My grandfather, a millionaire, was born in this house that doesn't even have a toilet.
My grandfather was born to a very poor family in this small village. In this environment, in very hard conditions, it was not possible to go to a school.
But my grandfather was devoted to his dream, engineering. He read tons of books, he studied every day and every night. He spent his years preparing for the university exam.
And finally he succeeded. He left the village and went to a university in another city. He is accepted to the engineering department as he wanted. He was still so hard working that he was even studying while the class was taking photograph. (My grandfather is holding the book in front):)
After graduating from university, he set up his own business. After years, his company became one of the best construction companies in the country. My grandfather’s next plan was to build a school. That was what he wanted the most, because it was a school that changed his life.
With 40 years of accumulation, he built a school for young children. That was my grandfather's happiest day.
After that day, I never saw my grandfather upset. He is very happy to make his most important dream come true, and now he is spending all his time with our family. In the summer, my cousins and siblings come together and play in the garden. And my grandfather accompanies their games :)
The biggest lesson his life has taught me is that success is no accident. It's hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice and most of all, love for what you are doing or learning to do.
 




-Neslihan Yagci

Tuesday, 16 June 2020

#1 Solve Real Problems and Adjust Along the Way



Solving imaginary problems can be helpful, but it’s often fear and procrastination in disguise. Well, I made this mistake and wasted months. If you’re doing the same, get out of your head and solve real problems instead. If you fail, good. You’ve identified a way which doesn’t work. You’ve learnt something. Now, go out and do it again. Reiterate until success.
Along the way, you’ll also learn how to make adjustments. Every master was once a disaster. Keep doing this and you’ll find ways to offer value and be a linchpin. It’s not easy, but achievable.

-Dylan Woon

The Purpose of a Medical Student


To learn the basics of medicine.
  1. How the body works (anatomy and physiology)
  2. How it breaks (pathology and pathophysiology, microbiology)
  3. How to fix it (Pharmacology, surgery and nutrition )
  4. How to incorporate the above with the complication of humans who don’t tell you everything and don’t always do what you ask them to (clinical medicine 3rd and 4th year clerkships)

Monday, 15 June 2020

Been born deaf, everyone was really skeptical towards me, yet I.......


Been born deaf, everyone was really skeptical towards me, yet

I graduated with a Masters in Computer Science in USA recently and it is unforgettable moment.
My college not only gave me knowledge but also access services that treats me equally with hearing peers. I am also glad to make friends especially deaf that help me gain confidence and be proud of my own identity. Masters isn't easy and it is worthy to learn and grow.
Lastly, I can’t wait to get started as a Software Engineer next year and its position is luckily to align with my passion.
That is happiest moment of my life ! Hardwork pays off.

-P Priyanka,MS Computer Science(2019),BTech Computer Science at Veermata Jijabai Technological Institute (2011-2015)
Backend Software Engineer (2020)
Software Engineer Intern at Samsung R&D Institute - Bangalore (2014)
 

Sunday, 14 June 2020

Group B Experience



I am currently working as a Group B employee which is a Level-6 (4200 Grade pay) job in Central Government pay matrix. Since I joined in june 2019, it has been 10 months into the service.

My Gross salary is around 55K pm and Net inhand salary is 51K pm. Along with it my mobile bill, newspaper bill and all medical bills are reimbursed.
Coming to my expenses:
  • Traveling expenses: 2000 pm
  • Other miscellaneous expenses including everything: approx 4K - 5K pm. It keeps varying.
  • Since i am posted in my hometown and live in my own house, no need to pay rent.
Apart from these expenses all my salary is saved. Currently I am not investing anywhere.
Yes I am happy with this salary because:
  • More than salary what matters for me is place of posting and luckily I got my hometown.
  • It makes me financially independent and now I can prepare for higher exams without any kind of pressure.
  • It allows me to help my cousin brothers who are still preparing for government jobs because my uncles do farming and all of you know the conditions of farmers.
  • Being in government service, I get respect in society which makes my parents proud on me.
Since i joined in mid june in 2019, I got one and a half month salary as my first salary and with that:
  • Bought new shirts for myself. It feels great when you buy something for yourself with your own earned money. (Photo captured during training)
  • Brought AC for the house. This was the first time we started using AC.
  • Since my mother used to wash clothes with hands, gifted her a washing machine.
I belong to a middle class family and desire to live a simple life where I can fulfill basic needs of my family and myself. This salary to some extent helps me in achieving that. I am also selected in another government job which is one level higher than the current job but its joining is still due, thereby an increase of 10k - 12k in salary.
Whether you are happy or not it all depends upon expectations and desires and vary from person to person.
So be happy with what you have, keep working hard to achieve your dreams and always keep smiling.
Thanks for reading :)


-Swatantra Kumar, Senior Administrative Assistant at Ministry of Agriculture (2019-present)

Friday, 12 June 2020

If Nothing Changes ,NOTHING Change


  1. Change the internal. If you believe that your goals will help you feel good about yourself, you are on your way to misery. You must take care of your internal issues in the present.
  2. Advice into action. You can consume all kinds of advice and nothing will change in your life because you didn’t apply it. Convert all advice you read into small-action steps. (even this list)
  3. Stop looking for secrets. Solutions to your problems are out there. You are stuck because you are looking for an easier, more “fancy” advice.
  4. Stick with the process. Anything worth having takes time. Whether it’s money or relationships, you need time to make a change. Be patient
  5. Plan, don’t hope. If you try to achieve success on hope alone, you will fail. You need a defined plan; “where you want to go” + “a daily action step”.

-Rafael Eliassen

Thursday, 11 June 2020

Work Hard & Keep Your Hustle Growing to Accomplish Your dreams


Recently i bought my own house for my parents in Noida. You can see room image in the below picture.
This was my dream that i wanted to do for my parents.
My Background:
My father was working as a driver and my mother is a house wife. But as of now, they are living happy life.
I am the only earning member of my family. I always wanted to do something like this for my parents.
I remember those days when we didn’t have food. we had to manage that.
But after getting selected in Google. I am getting huge salary, where i can give a happy life to my parents.
They helped me to grow. Now, its my turn to help them enjoy their life.
This is my room, where i am doing my job, right now we are working from home.
One thing i want to tell you guys.
Always listen to your parents. They are valuable for you.
Now back to your question, best life advice I can give ?
Be the person with the qualities of both, only money can't give you happiness and the life where you need to save 4 years to buy a budget friendly bike is also not worthy.
So,
Work hard and keep your hustle growing to accomplish your dreams.
Never believe that achieving something superficial will make you happy forever.
Note:- I read this in a comment on one of my post that money can't buy spirituality, wisdom, goodness, peace and i really liked that.
your smallest encouragement/suggestions inspires me to write more.
Thank you
-Rahul Mishra

Wednesday, 10 June 2020

Doctor in Making



My wife is currently a resident physician in her second year. She frequently puts in 90+ hours a week of work (we live an hour away from her work so that adds 2 more hours away from home).
Currently she is doing something called “night float” where she works during the night and comes home during the day. She typically leaves around 6:45 PM and returns around 10:00 AM. She wakes up around 6:00 PM from sleeping and I try and catch her for a few brief minutes before she leaves again. This has been going on for a month and thankfully is almost over.
Before that she had to do a 24 hour shift once a week and all sorts of other crazy schedules. She is constantly sleep deprived, doesn’t get enough time with friends and of course, we don’t get enough time together as partners.
It is emotionally draining work. Despite being perpetually run down, you always need to be on your A-game. People’s lives depend on it. Even the smallest mistake and there is immense stress involved, not just from patients and their families but from the program and attendings.
You accrue a mountain of debt (about $250,000 in our case) and despite going after it pretty aggressively, at ~6% interest rate, it is a bear to even get through the interest each year (thankfully we refinanced this down to 4% which is helping).
We have to miss out on meetings with friends, celebrations with family, going on trips and all sorts of social engagements because it doesn’t line up with her schedule.

In a word, doctors recommend other people not to become doctors because they know how incredibly grueling, emotionally draining and painful it can be.
But, I also want to say, that some people, like my wife, were made to be doctors.
She is compassionate and empathetic even when worn down to her wick.
She is deeply intellectual, with a mind that excels at solving complex and challenging problems.
She has a grit and resilience like I have never seen before.
She loves to heal and help people.
I couldn’t be prouder of the incredible woman that she is and I am so honored to be her partner in this crazy journey of life. It isn’t easy. Actually it’s really damn hard sometimes. But in life, finding a purpose is one of the most powerful things you can do. I think 99% of people die without ever finding it. I think I am still searching. My wife, she has found hers, and that is a magical thing.
 
 
-Casey Hill

Tuesday, 9 June 2020

Power Of Choice


  1. On May 17, 1945, a German girl is overcome with emotion as she walks past the exhumed bodies of some of the 800 slave workers murdered by SS guards at Nammering, Germany, and laid here so that townspeople may view the work of their Nazi leaders
2. A Sudeten woman from the area that is now the Czech Republic salutes the conquering German forces while crying at the fall of her people to the Nazis, circa 1942-1945.
3. Bystanders look on as a boy's burning corpse lies next to the jeep he was in, which was struck by a German V-2 rocket in Antwerp, Belgium on November 27, 1944
4. A young man sits on an overturned stool next to a burnt body inside the Thekla concentration subcamp outside Leipzig, Germany soon after its liberation by U.S. forces on April 18, 1945.
6. Human bones litter the grounds of the Majdanek concentration camp in Lublin, Poland following its liberation by Soviet forces on July 24, 1944.
7. Two women stand amid the leveled ruins of the almshouse that was their home before a German bombing raid destroyed it in Newbury, England on February 11, 1943.
8. Burnt bodies lie on the grounds of the Thekla concentration subcamp, outside Leipzig, Germany, April 1945.
9. Roger Godfrin, the only survivor of a massacre during which Nazi troops locked 643 citizens (including 500 women and children) inside a church and set fire to it on June 10, 1944 in Oradour sur Glane, France.
10. French women accused of collaborating with the Nazis have their heads shaved by French Resistance fighters in Paris on June 21, 1944
11. A young French girl clings to her mother in May 1940 as French civilians flee the German Army offensive in the north of France.
12. Photo taken at the instant that bullets from a French firing squad hit a French man who had collaborated with the Germans in Rennes, France on November 21, 1944.
13.
The devastated remains of Hiroshima, Japan just days after U.S. forces dropped an atomic bomb on the city, killing upwards of 140,000, on August 6, 1945.
14. Children of an eastern suburb of London, who have been made homeless by German bombings, sit outside the wreckage of what was their home, September 1940.
15. Victims of the massive Allied bombing campaign in Dresden, Germany, February 1945.
16. An 18-year-old Russian prisoner of Dachau concentration camp not long after its liberation by U.S. forces on April 29, 1945.
17. Some of the 60,000 dead bodies found on the grounds of Bergen-Belsen concentration camp following its liberation by British troops on April 15, 1945.
18. The American ship Robert Rowan explodes after being attacked by a German bomber off the coast of Gela, Sicily on July 11, 1943.
19. A tortured prisoner of the Buchenwald concentration camp in April 1945.
-Melvin Brown 

{Blogger's Note : This was  during world war 2. If you want to know the suffering caused by Hitler to millions of people and how he eradicated them and dehumanised them, read the book Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl 

You have the power of choice ,you have freedom, you dont live in such  a cruel war environment where you dont even get food to fill your stomach, still you have to work  for hours and hours and hours  . If you fall sick/ or uncapable of working you have to go to Gas Chamber where you will be killed by poisnous gas or you will be put in  a chimney and burned . So use YOUR POWER of CHOOSING and change your life for better  }

Monday, 8 June 2020

Me working in an office😀 / Arab working experience


Well, my salary is around 140 Kuwaiti Dinar (KD) per month right now..which equals to around 35000 INR. I am 23 years old, and here’s my story:
 
I come from a small town in Madhya Pradesh, I used to be a topper throughout my school. I got 92% in 12th commerce and decided to pursue a CA course.
My father works in a garage and earns little more than 10000rs a month. I got a cash prize from my school Rs .4500 for scoring the first rank in 12th.
 
I registered for CA-CPT and appeared for June attempt scored well. Around 124/200. My parents were extremely happy especially my father. We paid intermediate fees and started studying. I didn't join any classes nor did any college graduation as my father was struggling financially. Appeared for May 2016 attempt failed in both groups. Total score -398.
Father was really sad, He told me to appear next attempt this time group 1 cleared group 2 -Failed. Total score-412.
I was really depressed and shattered but finally decided to give next attempt group 2 failed again in isca and audit scored 28 in both.
 
My father told me that he can't keep paying for my studies as I was failing all the time. He experienced depression. He told me to get a job.
 
Finally, I got a job as an office clerk in a local law firm for 5000 pm worked there for 1.5 years but I wanted more salary. I had one friend whose father was a recruitment officer in an agency. I approached that agency that time in 2018 there were multiple vacancies for 12th pass staff for Kuwait based construction company. I applied for Office Boy position as it was the only option available to earn more. That time they had offered around 120 KD.
 
Now I’m in Kuwait, working as an office boy it's good here my work is good around 10 hours plus OT. I work for around 12 hours a day, work is simple like cleaning the office in morning ,which includes wiping tables,and mopping and serving tea to officers(Arabs have a habit to drink kehwa every 2 hours)so we need to be on toes every time, when we are free where we chat with fellow office boys, clean the kitchenette,wash utensils and cups.
Cleaning of the toilets is done regularly by us..twice a day….there are 3 office boys in total.Due to Covid 19,work has increased due to hygiene measures by the Kuwait Govt.
As the accomodation is provided by the company..we share it with other 2 office boys..One mate is from Indonesia and the other is from Bangladesh
 
 
I know My Dream was to be a CA and I am working at the low post for my Arab bosses I don't have any option but am satisfied and cannot keep the burden on my father. Now, I am already 2 years into this job. every year based on the performance we get an increment of 5~10KD…I expect my salary to increase slowly.
If I try to come to India, to study CA for which there’s no confirmed success. In this period of lockdown, when everyone is losing jobs I can't afford to leave this good job..Next year ,when I get leave ,will surely come to India and enroll in a distance learning course to improve my knowledge and get graduated at least..
 
Sorry for my grammar mistake.
 
Me working in an office😀






 

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