I had a classmate who was extremely rich, his parents bought him a Honda City just because he agreed to pursue engineering.
He was a nice guy and was friendly with others, he always had the latest iPhones, wore trendy clothes and expensive accessories.
I never envied him but I always thought that “His life is set”.
He had a family business, had a plenty of money, I thought he would easily make it big in life as he had everything to succeed.
I also thought, “Man, it would take me decades to get to his level.”
Fast forward today he works at an MNC for a very low salary.
It takes me a day to make the same amount of money which he takes home as a monthly salary.
It turned out that his father didn’t let him join their business as he had no experience running a business and neither he had any interest in doing so.
He was spending money recklessly and his behaviour was irresponsible.
His father wanted him to realise the importance of money as he him selves went from rags to riches by working hard.
His parents married him off to a girl of their choice just because they wanted him to become more responsible.
While this might be a good thing for a regular person for a guy who cruised around in a Honda city with girls to fancy restaurants and shopping malls, that is quite a humbling experience.
Life forces you to go through shit if you really want something, it does not care how wealthy you are.
Had he been a bit more mature and realised what wonderful opportunity has, his story could have been different.
Coming to the point What are the disadvantages of being a rich kid?
- Lack of hunger: Rich kids have it all, they have already enjoyed all the things they always wanted and hence they no longer have a will or desire to work for them. My classmates father might have all the money in the world but he could not buy the hunger which I had in me.
- Lack of realisation: Most rich kids don’t even realise what they have and how lucky they are, hence they mostly take everything for granted. Just as we regular people take food, internet, clean water for granted.
- True value of money: The more you have something the less valuable it becomes.
- They would resist to work hard for anything: They had everything in life easy, they don’t have to beg their parents for a new phone or a car, they get everything even before they ask and hence they develop the attitude that everything can be achieved with little or no effort.
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Remember, if you are poor and you think that you don’t have anything superior than the poor then you must remind that you have the “hunger”, which most rich kids lack.
Hunger is the most valuable asset a poor can have, no matter how much money the rich have, they cannot buy the hunger, it will make you push harder to get ahead in life
-Saurav Sharma