Thursday, 31 October 2024

The danger of their vices


We live in a society of addicts.


Almost everyone you meet, whether they are consciously aware of it or not, is an addict.


Whether their addiction is to a chemical substance like alcohol, cocaine, or opiates or to a distraction like porn, video games, social media, or TV, the average person is deeply addicted to things that provide no value in their life.


The problem is, our biology has tricked us into believing that our vices are a force for good.


Every time you take a shot, watch a steamy video online, or level up your character in World of Warcraft, your brain produces dopamine—the pleasure neurotransmitter—and basically says.


“Hey, GREAT job! You did something that feels good… now go do it again.”


The problem, however, is that our brains are (unfortunately for us) a bit stupid.


They evolved for a different era when resources were scarce and life was remarkably different from how it is today.


And as a result, our brains reward us every single day for activities and addictions that derail us from our purpose, steal our time and energy, and stop us from achieving what we want most.


When you consider that the AVERAGE person (according to the best statistics I could find and assuming that they start their vices at 21 and go until 78) will waste…


62,415 hours watching television or playing video games

41,610 hours on social media

1,976 hours watching other people have sex on the internet

Consume, at a minimum, 14,820 drinks and 148,200 hours will be spent either hungover or dealing with the negative impact of drinking.

Waste 68,400 working hours due to avoidable diet and lifestyle driven fatigue and distraction

It’s pretty clear that those seemingly harmless vices we all fall prey to aren’t so harmless after all.


Just consider…


What could you do with an extra 100,000 hours?


How would your life change if you became a master of ten high income skills?


Thing is… we all have more time than we admit. We simply waste it on things that don’t matter.


If you can flip this, reducing your vices by 80% (because we still need to have fun sometimes) and spending the majority of your time going on epic journeys and pursuing meaningful goals, your entire life can change almost overnight.


So let me ask you…


What are your vices costing you? What would your life look like without them? What are you sacrificing for your addictions?


And most importantly… are you willing to change?


Just food for thought.


Stay Grounded,

Andrew Ferebee


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Tuesday, 29 October 2024

‘If you marry him, you will have to pass through our dead bodies'

 ‘If you marry him, you will have to pass through our dead bodies'


This one sentence ruined her life. Her world came to a stand still, she was stuck in a deep dilemma which made her life nothing but a tale of misery.


She couldn't think what to do next, whom to ditch and how to face life any further.


She was now left with only four options-


Leave her parents and be dead for them, the same people whom she loves by heart.

Leave her parents and they will commit suicide, leaving her with a life long guilt and unbearable pain.

Dump her lover, betray his trust, ruin her life, destroy all her dreams and plans, and survive with a feeling of regret and severe depression.

Commit suicide.

What exactly is her fault?


Why did her parents put her in such a worse situation?


The harsh but true answer is that their love for her is smaller than their fear of society.


Society will make fun, boycott them and insult them. And they are ready to compromise their child's life long happiness to not face all this.


Also they conveniently assume that somehow their son/daughter will get over all this very soon.


How can you call yourself parents when you can't even fight the society for your kid's happiness?


The same society which is the first one to boycott or make fun of you in any misery.


I am sorry but parents who have done this with their child, or planning to do it are no better than the ones who stranded their new born child.


If you are a parent, please stand for your children and support them.


If you are a child, please take blackmailing from no-one, even if it's your parents.


-Anubhav Jain

Friday, 18 October 2024

What is important in life: luck or hard work?

Let’s assume there are 100 big containers numbered from 1 to 100 and one of them has gold in it.

Two people ‘A’ and ‘B’ have the chance to win this gold, all they have to do is break open these containers until they find gold.

Odds of finding gold in those containers would be 1 in 100 as per probability theory.

Its A’s turn, he starts off breaking the containers, he opens the first one, then the second and then the third, goes on till 24th and is too lazy to open up the rest and gives up.

A later discovers that the gold was present in the 28th container, which means that had he broke 4 more containers he would have won that.

He would have been called lucky if he had tried just a little bit hard but he didn't, he was too lazy to do so.

It’s now B’s turn, he starts off breaking the containers, 1,2,3,4…..till 50 and still no luck but B is still determined and continues breaking them and finally discovers gold at the 78th container.

What conclusion can be drawn from the above example?

Even if A was lucky to have gold in the 28th container the luck didn’t favour him because he was lazy.

Even if B had a bad luck because of having gold in the 78th container, he overcame his fate by overcompensating it with persistent and hard work.

Which means that:

Luck does exist but it favours the people who take an honest effort.

Bad luck exist too but it can be overcome by compensating it with hard work.

Although this example might sound lame(it actually is) most of the things in life work in a similar way, your odds of becoming successful eventually increases the more shots you take.

I would vouch for hard work any day as effort is something you can control.

Another funny thing is that people like to believe in luck because it seems so effortless and magical.

People in the real world look at people like ‘B’ who walk with a pot of gold and say how luck they are to get that gold.

However what they fail to see is the work that’s behind it.


Only intelligent people go to IIT ?


-Saurav Sharma

Thursday, 17 October 2024

Why do some people not achieve the success they should have even though they put in effort and hard work?

 I had a classmate who was finding it really hard to get a job.

We had just graduated at the time and he was looking for a job.

It was about a month since he started his search and one day I decided to call him up asking whether he got the job.

Me : “Hey man, how is your job hunt going? , any leads yet ?”.

Him: “Not yet, I am still struggling to find one”.

Me: “What exactly are you done so far? What companies have you applied for?”

Him: “I have setup profiles on a couple job portals, also applied for a couple jobs , waiting for their response but no response yet.”

Me trying to help : “Make sure you apply for a ton of jobs, most companies on job portal sites are fake and are setup by job agencies so make sure to …..”

He interrupts me mid-sentence.

Him: “Hey I got to go, Im out with my friends for a movie”.

Me: “Okay, bye”.

Upon disconnecting the call, I was like WTF ? This guy is jobless, calls him selves as someone who is struggling and is yet out with friends for a movie ?

He was not a local, he was living in a shared apartment, surviving on his parents money and yet was so relaxed.

A couple days later, I was in his locality for a client meeting after the meeting was over I decided to visit this classmate to see what was going on.

He was alone at the apartment as most of his flatmates went to work. He was laying on a mattress on the living room floor with his laptop watching a movie.

He still didn’t get a job and used to spend the entire day all alone at his room watching movies.

Upon asking about his job situation, he replied: “I was called for a couple interviews but was rejected by all of them.”

I asked: “So what’s your plan ahead?”

Him: ”I decided to enrol in XYZ institute to learn Java, they also have a good placement record, I can do the course for a couple months and also get a job”

Me: “Have you already paid the fee for the institute?”.

Him: “Yes, I did. The batches start next week”.

I knew that most institute courses are trash and the placements are even worse, However I decided not to tell him about it as he had already paid the fee and I didn’t want to discourage or demoralise him.

Him: ”Life is hard and unfair man, there is so much struggle.”

Me: “Yes it is, I know. But we got to work hard, skills is all that matter, maybe you should work on your skills and Im sure you will get the job”.

Him: “heck no, I don’t think skill matters, you see the guy “X” form our class, even he got placed despite of being so dumb. I am much better than him at all costs”

I nodded my head, even if I knew that X had far better skills than this dude.

After a while, I left for home.

A couple months later I come to know that he went back to his native place and was now working at his family farm.

In this entire duration of time, I had still other couple friend who had found a job off-campus and were doing quite well. Even I had started freelancing at was doing well. Whereas this guy “struggled” and yet didn’t get any job and had to go back.

Here are the reasons why:

He had an illusion that he was struggling, in reality however he was just being lazy. The real strugglers were my other friends who literally spent days applying for job, attending multiple interviews in a single day while this guy was spending his parents hard earned money watching movies.

He thought life was unfair only to him, even though his parents gave him enough time to find a job and settle. He could have been grateful for that and could have worked hard but instead he invested all his energy into the victim mentality.

He was entitled, he thought he deserves a job and companies are out here just to give people jobs. Rather than being responsible for his own actions and his future, he laid his future in hands of an institute which promised him a job.

He never saw a fault in himself, but always thought others were wrong. Had he focused on his own shortcomings analysing why he was rejected in an interview, and had worked on it, he would have easily managed to get a job.

So to answer the question:

Why do some people couldn't achieve much success, they should have achieved, despite putting effort and hard work?

Hard work is a relative term.

I know a lot of people who think they “work hard” but in reality they just have an illusion of working hard.

Yes, luck plays an important role. But the doors of luck only open up when you work hard.

Also, hard work is not just about doing manual labour and just completing a task at hand.

Hard work also involves self analysis, taking hard and life changing decisions, and being critical of yourselves.


-Saurav Sharma

Wednesday, 16 October 2024

It’s much simpler than you think


Success is not all about hard work, it’s a combination of multiple factors combined together.

However, the two major factors contributing to success are hard work combined with consistency.

If you truly want to become successful in whatever you want, you need to be able to work hard over a consistent period of time.

Let’s face it, we all can work hard for a day or two. We can do extreme workouts, follow strict diets for a day or two but the real challenge is to be consistent with it for an extended period of time.

Why most people don’t succeed:

People get all inspired and jacked up about achieving something, they plan meticulously and decide to start from tomorrow.

They almost overachieve on their first day, however what they don’t realise that it wont be possible to sustain that level of willpower and effort over a consistent period of time.

You may work hard, study/work for 16 hours a day with just 4 hours of sleep but what we fail to take into consideration is how sustainable it is over a long period of time ?

What successful people know & do:

They pick the optimal combination of hard work & consistency.

They work hard enough to get things done but not so hard that they don’t feel like working the next day.

The ripped and muscular guy you see at the gym has been consistently working out and dieting for years.

The people who own million dollar businesses have been in business for decades.

The people who have achieved great positions in their careers have been putting in consistent efforts for years.

The guy who topped the most competitive exam has been studying consistently since the first day.

With consistency you can work less:

If you are consistent with working on a goal, it takes relatively less effort to achieve it.

For example, it is much easier for a fit person to loose weight as compared to an overweight individual who has never had a workout in his entire life.

A fit person is able to have a pizza and skip a few days of workout whereas the individual who is overweight has to be much stricter with his workout and diet.

Same applies to other domains as well. Whether you are a student, a professional or a businessperson. The more consistent you are much easier it becomes to achieve something.

Hope this helps.


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-Saurav Sharma

Thursday, 10 October 2024

Can hard work beat intelligence?

Let us come up with this answer mathematically, because if we construct a model, it would be very easy to see how results of hard work vs smart work will compare and it would be easy enough to plug some numbers to simulate the results.

Let us imagine that there are two twin brothers. Their physical characteristics are exactly the same giving no advantage to anyone over the other in terms of physical capabilities.

Their father gives them two tool boxes that are exactly the same. They have the exact same knowledge as they attended the same schools and their teachers were the same.

One of them is slightly smarter than the other. But let us for now imagine, that they both started as wood cutters.


  • All they do is to go to the jungle, cut wood all day long, and sell that wood to a local grocery store as timber. People buy this wood to keep their houses warm. The wood is only burnt in the fire-pit.
  • Let us say, it takes T time to be spent to put in E efforts.
  • E efforts get converted into W amount of work.
  • W amount of work creates I amount of impact.
  • I amount of impact gives someone M amount of money.
  • How does this look like?

[M / I ] * [I / W] * [W / E] * [E / T ]

  • This expression is the driver of converting time into money.
  • Both brothers begin, and they both spend T hours in a day.
  • They make M money each day. How so?

[M / I ] * [I / W] * [W / E] * [E / T ] * T = M

They both keep doing this day after day, and they make M money each day. They both spend some of that money, and save the rest.

Let us just say - they both spend 60 % and save 30 %. Savings simply give them some room to spend that money in improvement of tools.


They both keep doing this, until one day, one of them realizes, that he does not want to work only hard. In fact he wants to spend only T - dT time in cutting the wood. How will his impact look like?

[M / I ] * [I / W] * [W / E] * [E / T ] * (T-dT) = M * (1 - dT/T)

Who is winning?

The one who is working harder is winning.


But the one working less is smarter. He realizes that his earnings have now dropped. He decides to improve his earnings by the power of his thinking, and starts thinking in rest of the time.

Next 200 days, he only thinks in the amount of time dT, but comes up with multiple ways to improve earnings.


Realize now, that his total time spent is still T. He has brought his total work on par with the hard working brother, but a fraction of that work is smart work.

How would he make his equation look like?

  • He would improve money per unit impact as this: [M + dM] /[ I - dI ]. That is, for less impact, he would generate more money. Example: Selling his wood for more money because he would sell it as usable furniture wood, instead of wood that can only be burnt.
  • He would improve his impact like this: [I + dI]/ [W - dW]. That is, for same work done, he would improve his impact. He would just select better trees to cut in the jungle.
  • He would improve his work like this: [W + dW] [E - dE]. To do this, he would buy better tools from his savings that would reduce his efforts and would get more done with the same efforts. Think for example about an automatic saw instead of a manual saw.
  • He would improve his efforts like this: [E + dE] / [T - dT]. To put the same efforts, it would take him less time. He would automate a few things. For example - let us just say that he automates the process of transfer of money from all his merchants.

How will his equation look?

[M+dM]/[ I-dI ] * [I+dI]/[W-dW] * [W+dW]/[E-dE] * [E+dE]/[T-dT] (T-dT)


Alright, now that we have setup the model, lets plug some numbers.

Smart plus hard work:

  • If at every step, the delta d part is one percent then this all looks like:
  • 101/99 * 101/ 99 * 101/99 * 101/99 * 99 = 107.24.
  • Now the smarter one is not only on par, but actually better than the hard working one. They both are working equal number of hours. The smarter one is kicking ass.
  • He continues putting his 1 % time in thinking and generating ideas, and next year he makes the delta d part look like 2%. In terms of numbers, it is now looking like: 102/98 * 102/98 * 102/98 * 102/98 * 98 = 115.00.
  • Now he is severely beating the hard working one. They both are working for equal number of hours.
  • Let us just imagine that each year the smarter one adds one extra percent. In year ten, his numbers look like:
  • 110/90 * 110/90 * 110/90 * 110/90 * 90 = 200. Now, he is twice as good as his brother. His brother with same time spent will never be able to compete with him.
  • Note here, that in this model, I kept the total time spent between hard worker and smart worker exactly the same.
  • Smart one kicks ass!
  • Here is yearly comparison chart:

Now let us run a model, where the smart one does not work hard from day one and never puts enough time in working. He puts the same 1 % time in thinking. He works only half as many hours in actually doing things.

Smart, but no hard work:


  • In year one his impact will look like:
  • 101/99 * 101/99 * 101/99 * 101/99 * 50 = 54.16. This is far behind the hard working brother.
  • In second year, it looks like: 102/98 * 102/98 * 102/98 * 102/98 * 50 = 58.67
  • For 9 years even when grown like this still looks like: 102.92.

See what happened? The smarter brother took 10 years to only catch up. Here is yearly chart: Note that the difference could not be leveled out even in 20 years.


How does the real world look like? The hard working brother would not be so dumb to keep doing the exact same thing all his life. Let us just imagine, that he copies the ideas of his smarter brother, but it takes him a whole year to do so. He just lags behind by one whole year.


With the first model, their numbers will look like this: Smart brother always wins, and keeps winning.


In the second model, the smart brother loses even worse because his hard working brother copies his great ideas within one year, and then beats him with his hard work even further.

Support to the conclusion: Hard work shines. An answer a lot of people want to believe.

We have proven mathematically, that you cannot choose to work [only smart, but not enough]. You would be beaten severely. It is when you work [smart and enough], and actually do a lot of work, you will always stay ahead.

Smartness will always make you shine, when you bring your total work on par with someone else who is not working as smart as you.

But even dumb people copying your methods, or ideas, but working super hard will beat you over the long term.

All this certainly seems true, when your smartness is in the ballpark of someone else. In this case we started with two brothers, and their smartness is in the same ballpark. One of them had a tiny advantage.


What if one of them was actually super smart, and not just a tiny bit smart. He says ~ “Screw this tool box, I want to be a computer programmer, manager and entrepreneur”. His wood cutter brother cannot become a computer programmer, manager, entrepreneur ever. Now their smartness is not in the same ballpark. It is majorly different.

The smart brother buys wood from his own brother, he finds an online avenue for selling timber and furniture, he hires people to convert wood into furniture, and by doing this, he makes more money by year three itself. In year four he hires more people to do the same with many other merchants and grows his income even further.

In the next year, he says, I will build modular furniture. He hires more designers, carpenters, equipment and sets up a factory to run a business like Ikea and makes several times the third year. Perhaps, his mathematical formula takes a form ~

[M+dM]/[ I-dI ] * [I+dI]/[W-dW] * [W+dW]/[E-dE] * [E+dE]/[T-dT] * (T/2-dT) * (1 + r)^Year

Do you see what is happening? Now the numbers are simply astonishing even when the smart one puts only half the time.

And if he puts the same amount of time, the numbers are simply unreachable.

There is just absolutely no way in the world, the hard working brother can even imagine to come on par, leave aside any competition whatsoever.


Conclusion supporting intelligence shines: When the intelligence is far different, no amount of hard work will make it a level playing field.

I support both hard work, and smart work. Work hard to work smart. And work smart to reduce hard work. Work so smart, that working hard is compelling, and then work super hard :)

My answer is not a side taking answer. It is only an analysis to inspire people to work to the best of their capabilities and the best of the capabilities come when you work smart and work hard.

With hard work, you can certainly outshine those who are in the same ball as your smartness, but if someone is far smarter than you, you would have to work super hard to come on par with even a fraction of their value. In fact it may not happen at all in the whole life.


I started getting comments about this answer saying - you have ignored a lot of things, such as inherited advantage, where you were born, and so many other things. Sure, some of the things come down to luck. A person who was born in USA had an advantage and better exposure to advanced world systems. A person born in a poorer country would not have that exposure for several years until they make it to an advanced nation for higher education or for jobs, but then do not forget the examples of so many people who achieve so much success even in poor countries. It is far better to work hard, work smart, read books, get mentors do everything possible than to blame the luck. Luck bends itself to the favor of brave. Who is stopping you from trying various things?

-Rohit Malshe


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