You must change your habit.
- It is foolish to be too frank all the time.
- It is also unwise to help others all the time.
You must rather learn to speak appropriately before people. You must also learn when to keep your mouth shut.
You must help only those people who seek your help or to those who have helped you in the past.
If you are always willing to help others, how can you blame people when they accept your help?
It is like a charitable person blaming the charity for not giving back charity in return of his charity.
While you have a choice to help or not help a person, other people too have the choice to return or not return your favour.
You must get out of the victim's mentality of finding fault in other people’ conduct and learn to accept the responsibility of your own action.
May be other people finds your ‘too frank’ talk stupid, arrogant and lacking substance.
May be you are helping people who don’t need or seek your help; or don’t deserve help from anyone.
Develop the habit of choosing your actions rightly, if you wish to live happily in this world.
-Awdhesh Singh
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