People develop their attitude depending upon who they are.

People develop their attitude depending upon who they are.

You choose your attitude from the basket of attitudes for your psychological satisfaction.

Let me explain.

If you are a good student, your attitude for studies will be different than the one who is poor in studies.

If you are poor person, your attitude toward wealth will be different from the one who is rich.

A good student would love studies while a poor one would hate it.

Unless you work hard on your studies and become a good student yourself, there is no way you can develop a positive attitude towards studies.

The most difficult problem, however, is that if you don’t like studies, you would find it difficult to concentrate and work long hours for studies and learn the subject, while a person who like studies can do it effortlessly.

When I was in school, I used to study Mathematics and Physics 10-12 hours a day , because I loved these subjects.

However, when I had to study Chemistry, even one hour seemed like a millennium.

Often, you get no option to leave something aside because you don’t like it.

I thus got the shock of my life when I got just 50/100 marks in grade 12 half-yearly examination.

I realised that I had no option but to study chemistry for getting into engineering because it had as much weightage as Mathematics and Physics.

And then the miracle happened.

It was initially a torture for me to study Chemistry.

However, as I forced myself to learn the subject, I got better at the subject and soon I started liking it.

And when the final results were declared, I got highest marks in Chemistry, better than maths and physics.

This is the hard truth of life.

If you have a negative attitude for something, you can never change it by manipulating your thoughts or reading a million self-help books.

The only way to change your attitude from negative to positive is to start working on the issue and achieve excellence in the chosen field.

-Awdhesh Singh

Once you become excellent at anything, your attitude towards it would naturally become positive.