You are going to meet him. You are tired, still the thought of eating dinner with him cheers you up. You can’t wait to share how good the day had been. You also want to discuss about your career plan with him. You know he might be hesistant. It makes you nervous. But you are somewhat confident that you can convince him.
This is the example of a good relationship.
You are going to meet him. You feel scared. You strongly pray that he is in a good, understanding mood and dinner should end on a happy and peaceful note at least this time.
This is the example of a toxic relationship.
A healthy relationship is another source of your happiness. The person forms your support. It might not give you happiness or peace always but it gives you strength to sail through difficult times.
Toxic relationship is the sink for happiness you obtain from other sources. It makes you very weak and vulnerable. Most of your time goes in searching for happiness bubles on the surface of the ocean of bitterness with flimsier hopes.
So
The best way to check if the relationship works for you or not is to
Monitor how you mind and body feels when you are with your partner.
If you feel nervous, scared, uncomfortable or traumatic, it is high time you need to consider whether you want to go ahead with the relationship or not
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