Thursday, 22 October 2020

10 Lessons in Life : Either You Learn it by Yourself or by Observing Others

Changing your life for better is all about selecting a destination and taking one step at a time to get there. Improving your life doesn’t have to be about making a big gesture. Instead it’s about you constantly working on and how you take those small steps every day.
  1. Be Grateful
There are people wishing for the life you are living. Be grateful for it instead of complaining for the things you don’t have. You just don’t need big things happening in your life to be grateful for. Habit of being grateful starts with you appreciating for every good things in your life and there is nothing too small for you to be thankful for. Not only be thankful for the positive and good things but be thankful for difficult or negative situations because it has helped you to grow.When you are grateful fears disappears and abundance appears.
2. Have a growth mindset
When it comes to learning there are typically two kinds of people, one with fixed mindset and one with growth mindset.
People with fixed mindset usually shy from the challenges because they fear the fear or they fear to get humiliated in front of others if they fail. This can be problematic because fear of making mistakes can lead towards avoiding new experiences, challenges which can help you grow.
Whereas people with growth mindset do not fear the fear. They are ready to take challenges and never afraid to fail. They learn from their mistakes and difficult situations which helps them to grow.
3. Get out of your comfort zone
Do something everyday that scares you. Most amazing realization and discoveries are made outside your comfort zone. It’s important to push the boundaries of your comfort zone. Think big and act big.
“As you move outside of your comfort zone, what was once the unknown and frightening becomes your new normal.” — Robin S. Sharma
4. Surround yourself with positive people
People have a huge impact on your life. You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. They are people that will inspire you to be a better person, provide you with motivation to achieve your goals, empower you to make the changes you need to succeed and cheer on your success.
5. Build Skills
Learn something new. Nowadays people are known for their skills. Alvin Toffler said, "The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn." That's because, in an environment where new skills emerge as fast as others fade, success is less about what you already know and more about adapting your skills by growing and expanding your knowledge base.
6. Procrastinate your procrastination
Why do people procrastinate? Because they are afraid to take action, they are afraid to make changes in their life, they are afraid to get out of their comfort zone. Procrastination is just an excuse for not taking action towards your goal. Build habits, have self discipline, create plan and take action. Nothing works if YOU don’t work.
7. Improve confidence
Nobody is born with limitless self-confidence. If someone seems to have incredible self-confidence, it’s because he or she has worked on building it for years. Visualization is the technique of seeing an image of yourself that you are proud of, in your own mind. Practice visualizing a fantastic version of yourself, achieving your goals. We tend to behave in accordance with our own self-image. The trick to making lasting change is to change how you view yourself.
“What the mind can conceive and believe it can achieve.” -- Napoleon Hill
8. Be persistent
Developing persistence is a master skill to success. Persistence is probably one of the most admirable characters a person can possess. Many has the capacity to set goals and plans toward success, yet only few succeeds, because only few stick to work on their goals and plans until it is accomplished. Be consistent, value yourself, value your goals.
9. Learn to say NO
Saying no doesn’t mean that you are being rude, selfish, or unkind. It’s just that you value yourself, your goals and your time. If the things are not worth the time doing, say no to that things.
10. You’ve already done it by looking for the ways to improve your life
Getting serious about making improvements is a great start, and taking ACTION is the next important step.Take ACTION.
Hope It Helps! Thanks For Reading.
Hi I’m Harsh, same old kid with the same old dream to achieve something BIG.
 
-Harsh Bhanushali

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